Baby, Let’s Dance!

By Kim Hall on Tuesday, June 4, 2013

“Let’s take a dancing lesson with lots of strangers, and then we’ll practice our  brandy-new skills at the dance afterwards!”

Surprisingly, my suggestion for the evening wasn’t met with the same enthusiasm with which it was delivered.

I suspect some of my fellow vacationers imagined that we’d make fools of ourselves and be asked to leave the event faster than Fred Astaire could say “Would you like to dance?”

While searching for an impromptu date night idea, I had found a website for the Knoxville Swingdance Association.

Their message for beginners was welcoming and low-key:

No special shoes required

Dress comfortably

Most important of all HAVE FUN

They certainly were speaking our language!

Throwing caution to the wind, we headed to the Laurel Theater.

Friendly club members greeted us at the door, and we paid our two dollar entry fee.

We continued into the large, empty, dance space and nodded to the few college-age couples milling about.

In a matter of minutes, the room filled with smiling folks of different ages and abilities.

The students on the stage cued up the vintage music on their CD player, and our jean-clad instructors stepped to the middle of the floor.

They deftly demonstrated a couple of steps, and we attempted to follow.

As you can imagine, there was much laughter as we tried to keep time and keep from stepping all over each other’s feet.

Then, our teachers switched things up by having us move to the perimeter of the room.

Every minute or two they’d call on us to stop dancing and ask the women to move to partner up with the man to her right.

We’d do a few more steps, share a few more laughs and apologies, and the ladies would shift places again.

Thankfully, every man was a gentleman, and everyone was a good sport.

When the lesson was done, but before the free dance started, the instructors cleared the floor.

They then enthusiastically whirled, twirled, and rock-stepped into their high-spirited rendition of West Coast Swing.

A few moments after they began, one of the dj’s called out, “Snowball!”

The dancers broke apart, came to the fringes of the circle, and grabbed a partner.

This scenario repeated itself every few seconds until everyone was out on the floor doing the best they knew how.

There were moments of mild embarrassment and utter terror—I have to lead a stranger in dance steps I just learned?!—and frustration at the learning curve.

However, we deemed the evening a rousing success.

I highly recommend a “Let’s Dance!” date night, not only for getting your bodies and minds moving, but also for stepping out of your comfort zone!

Kim Hall

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Kim Hall created Too Darn Happy with the mission of helping you find happiness in all circumstances through the encouragement of faith, the practice of gratitude, and the discovery of joy, all spun together with fresh perspectives, practical advice, and a personal touch. She recently authored her first ebook, Practicing Gratitude and Discovering Joy-30 Days to a Happier You.

 

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  • http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club

    Love this idea of throwing caution to the wind, Kim! The hubby and I love to dance but we usually do it around the house. Maybe we should put on our dancing shoes and go out for a night on the town.

    • http://www.toodarnhappy.com/ Kim Hall

      Go for it, Fawn! I have no doubt there are dance classes of all sorts in your busy neck of the metropolis. We can’t wait to move to Knoxville so we can pick up our dance lessons again.

  • Gaye @ CalmHealthySexy

    Love the idea of getting out of our comfort zones (although I enjoy mine a little too much!). But if I ever get my husband to agree to dance lessons of any kind, I will pass out from shock and amazement!

    • http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club

      LOL! You and me both, Gaye! Love my comfort zones :) .

    • http://www.toodarnhappy.com/ Kim Hall

      Our comfort zones fit so very well, don’t they, Gaye? I say always keep the door open to miracles re hubbies and dance lessons. :-)

  • http://tamaralikecamera.blogspot.com/ Tamara Bowman

    I love this, Kim. There is something amazingly liberating about dancing. That moment you let go – it’s a catharsis really. I feel it happen and I know I’m letting go of A LOT of buried waste. I think it should be a life requirement to do this every now and then. Great vacation idea too! I did a swing dance lesson in SF once – that was a trip!

    • http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club

      Swing dancing, really?? That seems like ALOT of work. Maybe even as much as salsa dancing. I have a feeling you burned tons of calories that night (and had a blast all at the same time :) ).

      • http://www.toodarnhappy.com/ Kim Hall

        Swing dancing is a blast, especially because you can do it very simply. Once you know the steps, though, you can add all sorts of pizazzy fun to the mix.

    • http://www.toodarnhappy.com/ Kim Hall

      A life requirement. Heh. Perhaps having a marriage bucket list at each anniversary, rather than your standard paper, wood, silver, gold, gifts, etc. First year: skydiving, second year, white river rafting, third year, dance lessons, etc. :-)

      • http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club

        Wow, that’s awesome! I like that so much better than the standard paper, wood, silver, tin stuff. Neat idea.