12 Gifts of Marriage: Day 3 {bonus: 12 Days of Christmas Giveaway}

By Fawn Weaver on Friday, December 27, 2013

12 Gifts of Marriage - Day 3

             DAY 3: TRUST

A musician stands on the edge of a stage with his back facing the crowd, closes his eyes, spreads his arms like an eagle and falls backwards with reckless abandon.

The crowd, in anticipation and with great excitement, catches him and continues to keep him lifted.  

This is the ultimate act of trust for artists and musicians; to fall into the arms of their fans trusting they will keep them lifted.

A husband stands at the edge of life, arms stretched wide, closes his eyes, and falls backwards into the arms of his wife.  Trusting, no matter her strength, she’ll never let him fall.  

This is one of the most beautiful gifts of marriage: Trust.

Before marriage, so many walk around with heads held high proclaiming a need for no one.  God maybe, but no human being.  But in our hearts, we know neither is true.  We need both.

It is said that, “Marriage provides the solace of worked-on friendship and the joy of being profoundly known.”  It allows a bond to develop, a trust like none other, between two people whose souls were created in heaven and later bound on earth.

To be fully known, that is the necessity of every person; man, woman and child.  And a loving marriage provides that like no other earthly relationship.

We stand on the edge of life, eyes closed and arms raised, and fall backwards.  And magically, almost mysteriously, no matter the strength of our spouse, we are always caught.

On Christmas, we unwrapped the first gift of marriage: Friendship.  Then yesterday, we explored the gift of being a United Front.  And for the next 10 days, we will continue to unwrap one additional gift of marriage daily.  In a world filled with insatiable desires, it is nice to spend time just appreciating the gifts we already have.  Don’t you think?

Please join me tomorrow for day 4 and before you leave today, make sure to scroll down to participate in our 12 Days of Christmas spectacular giveaway.

Until tomorrow…make it a great day!

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12 DAYS OF CHRISTMAS SPECTACULAR GIVEAWAY

I’ve never done a series quite like this before.  Every day, for 12 days, I will post an encouragement for your marriage at the top.  And then, a pretty spectacular giveaway at the bottom in honor of the release of my upcoming book, Happy Wives Club. (Still can’t believe we are less than 2 weeks away from its release!)

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Fawn Weaver is the USA Today® and New York Times® bestselling author of Happy Wives Club: One Woman's Worldwide Search for the Secrets of a Great Marriage, adopting the same name as the Club she founded in 2010. The Happy Wives Club community has grown to include more than 900,000 women in over 110 countries around the world. When she’s not blogging or working on her next project, she's happily doting over her husband of nearly eleven years, Keith.

 

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  • Rebecca Peterson

    Thank you for posting this 12 Gifts of Marriage series- my husband and I have really enjoyed reading them so far and are looking forward to the rest:0)

    • http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club

      I am so excited you and your husband are reading them together! Thank you for sharing that, Rebecca.

  • Lauren Lawson

    This post makes me ponder on how vulnerable trusting God and spouses make us. But it’s so vital top have that trust! Great post, I’m enjoying these! :)

    • http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club

      Incredibly vulnerable. But that’s the beauty of it, don’t you think? To have that one person you can completely let down your walls. I, for one, had walls, a moat and guards at the gate for so long, being fully exposed for the past 10 years has been liberating. Thanks, Lauren, for your kind note! Hope your Christmas week has been a beautiful one.

  • Roger Rae Quinton

    Not sure what I I missed, but I can’t find where to enter the contest. Please repost instructions for anyone who can’t afford the book or merchandise but would like to have a chance to win the prizes available. Thanks for re sharing the info.

    • http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club

      Hi Roger Rae! I’m so sorry I’m just now seeing this email. The contest form is above but I think you may have come to the site in the few moments when the contest widget switched over to a link (it took me about 5 minutes to figure out how to fix it). Unfortunately, this contest is now over but you can enter the one from today (and the contest widget is working perfectly :) ): http://www.happywivesclub.com/12-gifts-of-marriage-day/

  • Anon

    Trust is one of those hard things to “learn” to do. I was raised in a home where I never had to question trust amongst my parents and family. But my husband’s upbringing was different. They loved and cared for him, but the trust was not always there. This is one place that we have to work on, and pray abut, together. Thank you for this series! I’ve really been enjoying it!

    • http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club

      There are so many things that come naturally to my husband that I’ve had to learn. But thank God for new learnings, right? And thank YOU for not only reading it but being kind enough to post a note.

  • A Guest

    Happy Friday!!!! TRUST…I long for my husband to trust me more! Haven’t done anything to show otherwise in my marriage. Oh well……

    • http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club

      Happy Friday! Hoping that changes for you in your marriage. Maybe you can both read through this series together and use it as a conversation starter each morning. What do you think?

  • HilLesha O’Nan

    I wholeheartedly agree! Trust ~IS~ the key to a healthy and successful marriage.

    • http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club

      Yes, it is. Thanks for stopping by HilLesha and taking the time to post a note. Appreciate you!