7 Ways to Turn Your Husband’s Bad Day Into a Good One
By Maggie Reyes on Friday, August 30, 2013
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Do you ever wish you could wave a magic wand and solve all your hubby’s problems in one magical swoop? I know I do.
Even though I still haven’t found that magic wand, I have learned to collect tips and advice to add to my “how to cope with stress” toolkit so I can whip out that healing hammer whenever my husband is having a bad day.
Here are 7 easy ways to help turn your husband’s bad day into a good one. :
Give him space - When your husband has challenging days at work as often as mine does (his role requires frequent audits), you learn that some days he needs to talk and other days he just needs to turn on the Playstation and blow up some bad guys. Tell him, with words, that you are there for him and for anything he needs, then let him choose what would help the most.
Focus on the Good – If he is in the mood to talk, after he vents and lets the day go, find things to celebrate – even if it’s chocolate chip cookies for dessert or his favorite show on TV that night. The little things that make us smile can go a long way to cheer us up. Remembering how much we have to be thankful for is always a good idea.
Say Thank You– Thank him, for all his hard work and everything he does for you so that you can have a home together. Gratitude is a powerful force and when you shower it upon your husband, it has the power to instantly lift his mood and make him feel like the king of the world. And we all know hubbies love that, right?
Make him laugh – Don’t worry, you don’t have to be a comedian to do this, you can watch his favorite comedy on TV or funny videos on YouTube. For any Seinfeld fans, there is a hilarious guy on Twitter who writes tweets as if Seinfeld was still on the air. He tweets things like: “George tries to hide that despite seeing every episode he has no idea what’s happening on Game of Thrones. Elaine buys defective yoga pants.” You can find him here.
Touch Him – Hold his hand, hug him tight, squeeze his knee when you are watching TV. Whatever way he likes to be touched – use the power of touch to connect and soothe. If he asks, “Why are you touching me so much?” Tell him you just read an article (yes, this one!) that said the University of Illinois studied NBA basketball teams and found that the more on-court touching there was early in the season, the higher the teams scored by the end of the season. If it works for the NBA, it works for the Wifey in my book!
Flirt– Remember how he loves to feel like he is the king of the world? Well that’s not exactly true. What your husband loves is to feel like he is the king of *your* world. Flirting is the most direct, most fun way to convey that to him. It’s also a way you get to have fun, make him laugh and touch him at the same time. It’s a triple whammy of deliciousness. In fact, you should do that even when he’s not having a bad day, don’t you think?
Just listen – Okay, ladies, this may seem obvious but I know there are a lot of you like me out there, looking for magic wands to wave and problems to fix when all our husbands need is just our love and listening ear. No matter how tempted you may be to find 5 potential solutions to his problems, stop, look at his beautiful eyes, focus and just listen.
QUESTION – These are 7 of my favorite ways to help my hubby on those stressful days. What do you do to help your husband cope with stress? Please share your tips in the comments.
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Rachel Efros
I learned from my mom to always greet him with a smile, a hug and a kiss right when he comes in the door. Even if you are a nervous wreck with burning spaghetti and children hanging off the ceilings. If his first moments home are happy ones it makes all the difference. I use this advice now that I am married and it is amazing how it even helps my mood on days that have been not so good,
http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club
Absolutely! I find the same thing. It’s like the Ralph Waldo quote goes, “Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting some on yourself.”
http://www.modernmarried.com/ Maggie Reyes
Yes! when I read up on the power of touch, the researcher said the same thing – you cannot touch without touching and it lowers your own blood pressure too!
http://www.modernmarried.com/ Maggie Reyes
Yes! we always “Hug Upon Arrival” and sometimes I run into him like the wife version of a freight train – makes him laugh every time! That’s great Rachel!
Sheila Anne
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Juliet Ayala
actually i’am like this..we respect each other space…i get it from my mother,she really make my father feel like he is the king of our home…
http://www.modernmarried.com/ Maggie Reyes
Juliet! that is so important – I really believe our home should be our sanctuary. My hubby makes me feel like I am the queen of our home too. So like Gemma said in the previous comment – the love and compassion goes both ways.
http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club
Ditto here! Queen of the castle .
Gail
Maggie, it’s awesome your husband makes you feel like a queen. I totally agree that love, compassion and respect should be mutual. Like God’s Word says, love covers a multitude of sins and it also says, love does not keep a record of wrongs. I know you are already aware of these things. I’m not directing my next question to you but for anyone to jump in; when I ask for help with loading the dishwasher, folding some laundry or stir something on the range top, I am reminded he’s not the maid. Is he implying that I’m the maid or it’s just my responsibility. My father helped my mother even if she didn’t ask. Now we live in 2013 where lots of dad’s help some. Am I wrong to ask for his help? We don’t argue and I’m certainly not perfect, but I try hard not to nag because that accomplishes nothing. It would be so nice if my hubby would read the bedtime story. Small things like that would make me feel like a queen. Guess you can tell, I’m discoursed and desperate.
http://www.modernmarried.com/ Maggie Reyes
Gail, my heart is with you. Maybe both of you see the duties and responsibilities from different angles. Maybe both of you love each other as deeply as you can, and are both doing your best with what you have.
Communication is so key because once you know what he believes his responsibilities are, then you have the opportunity to let go of expecting something else. (Something he may never give because it doesn’t match with what he believes.).
In any situation, we can accept it, try to change it or leave it. It could be as simple as hiring a cleaning lady. So the situation becomes a moot point. Or you may get the help you need from another source entirely. Or barter with a friend – baby sitting for housecleaning or any kind of creative arrangement that brings you relief and help.
My personal belief is that much of our suffering comes from the battle between our expectations and our reality. When we learn to accept what is actually in front of us (maybe we don’t like it, but we accept it) then we suffer less. I don’t believe we are ever wrong to ask for help. But what causes us pain is to expect we will know the answer that person will provide. (I hope that makes sense).
My heart is with you Gail. My prayer is that you find the light and guidance you are seeking – maybe from one of the books recommended here or from your local support group.
Big HUG!
L
@disqus_MoZ2iZSxaV:disqus @disqus_Ek8n2CLJaJ:disqus Any “man” who tells his wife he is ‘close to perfect’ and refuses her requests for help has some major issues and is not much of a man in my opinion. Just because this man doesn’t ‘believe’ he has any responsibility (other than bringing home a paycheck) toward his wife or children doesn’t make it true and, obviously there isn’t a lot of real communication going on here as in, he definitely is not hearing her. Yeah, she can ‘accept it’ but if she does, will this man ever grow up? I’d venture to guess, too, that, if she could afford a cleaning lady she probably wouldn’t have to work the long hours she does. You are right about suffering because of the battle between our expectations and reality but that doesn’t mean reality cannot change. She can implement suggestions 1-7 and see if that makes a difference. If not, maybe she should get real with him and say, “I’d really like to do (blank) for you but I only have so many hours in my day. If you want “x, y, or z” then I need you to (fill in the blank). I supposed there’d have to be consequences in place if he refused and she’d have to follow through.
K
Just because this husband doesn’t ‘believe’ he has any responsibilities as far as helping out his wife doesn’t make that true. If she continues to take on longer hours at work plus all these other responsibilities and just ‘accepts that as her reality,’ he is ‘off the hook’ and will never see a need to grow up and be a marriage partner, not just another child to be taken care of. He has already insinuated that he is ‘perfect’ and all the problems are either in her head or she’s just making problems where there are none.There needs to be a lovingly frank conversation with needs spelled out, and some sort of action taken to get his attention if he still refuses to acknowledge these needs.
T
I absolutely agree with you! I also think there needs to be a talk. You two are equally responsible for what happens in the house. My husband & I don’t believe in the concept of what is the job of a woman or what is the job of a man. Pray for guidance & wisdom for both of you, as you approach this situation. You are bearing a lot on your shoulders & it’s not healthy, especially when he is perfectly capable to help. I’m sorry for coming across blunt, I don’t mean to, but I also try to be very straight forward in what I say & mean it. I’m praying for you lollypop (I actually love that screen name, btw). You & your husband will get through this.
Gemma
I think they are really good tips, but you need a friend as well, and sometimes its important not to indulge or enable your husband who may be in a bad mood from work. Communicate your needs as well, and say hey I am also important. I would be really worried if my husband even owned a play station and was still wanting to blow people up!
http://www.modernmarried.com/ Maggie Reyes
Hi Gemma, there is a whole generation of men who grew up playing video games and instead of playing golf or football they play games. I happen to be married to one so I can tell you, he is noble and kind and the most fair and compassionate person I know. Playing games is just one of his passions, like writing is one of mine. For him it’s a form of stress relief. He gets to pretend he is a great warrior, saving the planet from the latest group of bad aliens who have come to blow us up. I find it really sweet actually.
I love that you mentioned to communicate your needs as well! Hubbies of course, can do each one of these too!
Gail
All seven of these ideas sound great. I want to just put this out here, what if you are the one who works the longer hours, cook and clean up dinner then take care of your children (homework, baths, getting them to bed). I love this website, as well as Proverbs 31 Ministries and a host of others. It seems like the wife/mother gets to do everything and to do her best to be what God wants her to be for her husband and family. Why do husbands/fathers get to play while you work your evening away? School lunches prepared for the next day, laundry, take out the trash, pay the bills. I would love to be able to have time with God and Bible study. I am bone tired. Husbands/fathers have no responsibilities. Is this because of Eve’s sin?
http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club
Oh no, Gail. I’m definitely not saying that. I work longer hours than my husband, as well. And I am often the one who has to be consoled after a tough day (last night was a good example when the server for this site went down two hours – right after I posted the link for this post on Facebook…sigh ).
Keep in mind that we’re only talking about when your hubby comes home after a tough day. I assume (hope) that’s not every day. These same tips would apply to him. The only difference is this site isn’t dedicated to husbands, otherwise, this post would be for them too (and I know some hubby’s read this regularly and I’m sure they’ll be using these same tips for their wives).
Gail
Thanks Fawn. I didn’t mean to sound so ungrateful-I am just exhausted. I am the primary financial provider. I work in Hospital Administration over several departments. And also handle lawsuits filed in the initial stage. I make it a point to let my husband to be the spiritual leader of our home and desire to be submissive to him. Seems like I am almost in a state of prayer the entire time I’m at home because submission is hard at times. But that’s what God requires of me. I’m glad to know men are on this site too. My sweetie always gets home before me and the kiddos. I should be glad he has time to wind down. Maybe I envy him. I’m sharing too many of my downfalls. Gotta run. thanks again.
http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club
That’s why we’re here! It’s a girl fest . I understand what you’re saying and I hear you! When I feel overwhelmed (which has been many times over the past 10 years), I have found just going to my hubby and saying, “I’m exhausted” kicks him into protector/provider mode. He wants me to be happy. He wants to take care of me, adore me, shower me with love. He doesn’t want me carrying the weight of the world on my shoulder. But I have to speak up sometimes because, as women, we can make it look too easy at times. We can juggle 20 things at one time but sometimes we have to say, “Here honey! You take these. And just rest.”
Gail
I do appreciate your encouragement. And ideas to help me speak up. God Bless.
Ella
Gail, I feel for you. I want you to know that you are important, and your husband should treat you so. Just as we are loving and respectful and helpful to our husbands, they should be to us. Communication is key in a relationship. You seem to be feeling very overwhelmed. You guys are a team, but you have to express your thoughts and feeling to him in order for him to know what you need and to act on it. Also, as a Christian we understand that the husband is the head of the household, but you are not meant to bow down to him and do everything he says. Marriage is structured so that you can work together and help lift each other. It is okay to voice your opinion. It is very important for both of you to be communicating how you feel and what you need. Think of our loving kindhearted God. He would never assert dominance over a woman. Neither should a husband. It is a loving relationship that should be 50% 50%— or rather 100% given by both parties. Yes there are roles taken on by each, however when one is trodden down, that is where the other one steps in to provide help, comfort, and much needed love. But don’t expect them to just know that you need help, it must be communicated because telepathy is not among the many husband super powers. I hope this helps. I hope things get better for you.
Ella
I also wanted to add… I admire you for all of your hard work! You are an amazing, strong woman! Doing the many things you do takes a lot of energy. Don’t be too hard on yourself when you need a little break. I get the feeling that you push yourself, and that’s okay, but don’t forget to soak in the tub or make yourself a yummy treat, because you work hard and deserve to reward yourself once in a while!
Gail
Thanks Ella. I didn’t express the way my marriage works on this web site to be condemned. I’ll always take constructive suggestions for what I can do to make things better for my marriage. I once suggested we might benefit from a Marriage series our church sponsored over 8 weeks. My man told me I was welcome to attend if I had issues. His words were “I’m not doing anything wrong, as a matter of fact, I’m about as close to perfect as a human can get.” Then he smiled teasingly. I have asked if he would help out with the kid’s homework (he was his graduating class Valedictorian) so I know he knows how to teach/explain things. He just thinks the children and chores and shopping are a woman’s job, even if she has to work. Ella, thanks for your encouragement. God Bless!
http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club
That’s so tricky because without being in your marriage or really knowing your husband, it’s hard for me to give ideas to help you speak up. BUT, there is a book I highly recommend by Dr. Kevin Leman called Have a New Husband by Friday. Have you read it before? I love all books Dr. Leman writes but I wonder if this one might be especially helpful in this situation. Check it out of you have a chance (I think I may have even seen a PDF of it online somewhere). Hope that helps! .
http://mylifesmomentsandrealities.blogspot.com/ Nicole N A
I have!!! It was one of my summer reads this year and I loved it.
http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club
Nice! I love Dr. Kevin Leman. He can’t write enough books as far as I’m concerned. He’s definitely strengthening families one book at a time .
http://mylifesmomentsandrealities.blogspot.com/ Nicole N A
That was the first of his books I ever read and I’m looking for others by him. I like reading books written by people who’ve successfully DONE marriage:)
http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club
Ditto! I’m not a huge fan of those talking about marriage in hypotheticals – I need to know you’ve not only lived it but are currently living it!
http://mylifesmomentsandrealities.blogspot.com/ Nicole N A
Exactly!
http://www.modernmarried.com/ Maggie Reyes
Fawn! Totally agree – the hubs uses these same strategies whenever I am having a bad day. He was the one who shared the Seinfeld thing to make me laugh.
Gemma
No it is not, it is because women by nature just are more nurturing and beat ourselves up more, if everything isn’t done.
John White Jnr
This is my testimony about the good work of a man who helped me..My name is Tracy Adams, and I base in Canada. My life is back!!! After 2 years of marriage, my husband left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr John who i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I was searching for a good spell caster that can solve my problems. I came across series of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. There was one particular testimony I saw, it was about a woman called grace,she testified about how Dr John brought back her Ex lover in less than 72 hours and at the end of her testimony she gave Dr John e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give Dr John a try. I contacted him with his via email address and explained my problem to him. In just 2 days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. Dr John is really a talented and gifted man and i will not to stop publishing him because he is a wonderful Dr…If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve that problem for you. Try Dr John today, he might be the answer to your problem. Here’s his contact: HOMEOFSOLUTIONS@OUTLOOK.COM Thank you once again Dr John. Contact him for the following:
(1)If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
(3)You want to be promoted in your office.
(4)You want women/men to run after you.
(5)If you want a child.
(6)[You want to be rich.
(7)You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever.
(8)If you need financial assistance.
(9)If you want to stop your Divorce
10)Help bringing people out of prison
(11)Marriage Spells
(12)Miracle Spells
(13)Beauty Spells
(14)PROPHECY CHARM
(15)Attraction Spells
(16)Evil Eye Spells
(17)Kissing Spell
(18)Remove Sickness Spells
(19)ELECTION WINNING SPELLS
(20)SUCCESS IN EXAMS SPELLS
(21) Charm to get who to love you.
Contact him today on: HOMEOFSOLUTIONS@OUTLOOK.COM
I loved this post and all the great tips! One thing I like to do for my husband is greet him with a meal he loves, and make it romantic with candles, twinkle lights, and music. He can come in the door and relax and let the stress of work fade away. Sometimes it’s also great to take the theme into the bedroom, with more candles and lights, and rose petals on the bed. I like to remember that while us girls like to be pampered, sometimes our husbands appreciate it too!
http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club
They not be as vocal about it as us girls, but you’re right; they love to be pampered too. And I could visualize the Twinkle lights – love that.
http://www.modernmarried.com/ Maggie Reyes
LOVE the twinkle lights!
heather
Just love him. I have recently realized how short life is, much too short for arguments or selfishness. I want to pour everything I am into loving him. That’s gotta make him feel good, right?
http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club
Absolutely! You’ve figured out something so many think about only once it’s too late: no one is guaranteed any breath beyond the current. Loving your husband like today could be your last is not only the best way to live, but it’s the only way. Kudos, Heather!
http://robinwootton.wordpress.com/ Robin Jester Wootton
I know this is a list of what TO DO, but I would add one not to do. As already seen on the comment section, do not compare your work load to his. many times our first instinct is “oh you think YOU had a bad day? you poor baby, listen to what happened in MY day.” when you start down this road, you’ve already set yourselves both up for misery. You both work hard all day long. Why? because you want to do your best and take care of each other. Your husband probably thinks he’d love to stay home with the kids all day from time to time and you get frustrated when he doesn’t understand why you’re angry and tired and bitter. it DOES go both ways and a good marriage is one that is based on mutual understanding and respect of the other person and their efforts for your family. Don’t do the comparison game. No one ever wins that one.
http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club
That is SUCH a great addition, Robin! Thanks for adding that. Mutual respect and understanding (and patience ) are so important.
http://www.modernmarried.com/ Maggie Reyes
Robin – totally agree. If I ever write a post on “how to destroy your marriage” comparing would be very high on the list of things Not To Do. Spot On.
kclanderson
I love this conversation! I’m all about having my face light up with happiness when I see my husband after being apart for any length of time, bad day or good.
http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club
Yeah! So happy to hear that. Thanks for stopping by .
http://www.modernmarried.com/ Maggie Reyes
KC! So great to see you here! Big Happy HUG!!!
mary
Love these! Brilliant!
http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club
Thanks, Mary.
Alaina
I like to greet my hubby with a hug and kiss and then open a beer for him and give him a nice back rub/scratch after he’s had a stressful day
http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club
Nice!
portofpeace
I agree with this post 100%. Another one I use is just tell my husband that he is doing a great job.
http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club
That is fantastic! Must make him feel as though he’s on top of the world .
mraralaty
This is a testimony that i will tell to every one to hear. I have been married for three years and on the fifth years of my marriage, another woman had a spell to take my lover away from me and my husband left me and the kids and we have suffered for 2years until i met Dr. Kasee of the onimalovespell@gmail.com where so many people have been helped and i decided to give him a try to help me bring my lover back home and believe me i just send my picture to him and that of my husband and after 48hours as he have told me, i saw a car drove into the house and behold it was my husband and he have come to me and the kids and that is why i am happy to make every one of you in similar to visit this man via Email and have your lover back to your self Dr. Kasee of onimalovespell@gmail.com
http://starlajimenez.blogspot.com Starla Jimenez
Thank you for these tips!
http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club
Our pleasure! So happy you found them, Starla .
Jessica Andersen
This may be a little forward, but I would add “make love” to the list…
John White Jnr
This is my testimony about the good work of a man who helped me..My name is Tracy Adams, and I base in Canada. My life is back!!! After 2 years of marriage, my husband left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr John who i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I was searching for a good spell caster that can solve my problems. I came across series of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. There was one particular testimony I saw, it was about a woman called grace,she testified about how Dr John brought back her Ex lover in less than 72 hours and at the end of her testimony she gave Dr John e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give Dr John a try. I contacted him with his via email address and explained my problem to him. In just 2 days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. Dr John is really a talented and gifted man and i will not to stop publishing him because he is a wonderful Dr…If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve that problem for you. Try Dr John today, he might be the answer to your problem. Here’s his contact: HOMEOFSOLUTIONS@OUTLOOK.COM Thank you once again Dr John. Contact him for the following:
(1)If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
(3)You want to be promoted in your office.
(4)You want women/men to run after you.
(5)If you want a child.
(6)[You want to be rich.
(7)You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever.
(8)If you need financial assistance.
(9)If you want to stop your Divorce
10)Help bringing people out of prison
(11)Marriage Spells
(12)Miracle Spells
(13)Beauty Spells
(14)PROPHECY CHARM
(15)Attraction Spells
(16)Evil Eye Spells
(17)Kissing Spell
(18)Remove Sickness Spells
(19)ELECTION WINNING SPELLS
(20)SUCCESS IN EXAMS SPELLS
(21) Charm to get who to love you.
Contact him today on: HOMEOFSOLUTIONS@OUTLOOK.COM
Sometimes I think just sitting quietly and holding him while he may or may not talk works well. Sometimes he wants to talk about what’s wrong, and other times he doesn’t. Just having someone with a listening ear, patience, and willing to show them they are loved is an amazing and powerful thing.
http://www.happywivesclub.com/ Fawn @ Happy Wives Club
I have been the recipient of that on many days…and have also been the giver. It is most certainly amazing and powerful.
Gabella Suarez
Good day.Compliments of the season to you all out there.. I am so full
with joy as i write this post right now.. i really have had an en
counted with a real spell caster who is so true with is word and he does
what he says he will do. He is the realest of all spell casters out
there.. so genuine and true. I want to thank High priest Steve for
all he had done for me within the short time i met him.. he has really
made my end of year a memorable one and has made me know that there is
still hope. Thank you once again for bring back my lost love and making
my life sweet and better.. I am so happy for the divine turn around he
brought to my life. friends out there.. search no further for fake and
scam spell caster, the real one is prophetogogalaga@gmail.com and
his name is High priest Steve, Contact him today and share your
problems with him and i am so optimistic there will be a solution to
that problem when been brought to High priest Steve. prophetogogalaga@gmail.com
Gabella Suarez
Good day.Compliments of the season to you all out there.. I am so full
with joy as i write this post right now.. i really have had an en
counted with a real spell caster who is so true with is word and he does
what he says he will do. He is the realest of all spell casters out
there.. so genuine and true. I want to thank High priest Steve for
all he had done for me within the short time i met him.. he has really
made my end of year a memorable one and has made me know that there is
still hope. Thank you once again for bring back my lost love and making
my life sweet and better.. I am so happy for the divine turn around he
brought to my life. friends out there.. search no further for fake and
scam spell caster, the real one is prophetogogalaga@gmail.com and
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